I read somewhere that there are people who are unable to relax when they are passengers in a car. They sit attentively watching out the window. Why? Because they think they can control the outcome of whether or not they get in an accident by watching. I thought, ‘WOW’ this is me. Once it was brought to my attention I realized how crazy it was and was able to actually relax while in the car. Maybe that was one of my first steps in the process of letting go. It seems to me that the more we hold on to the more pain we suffer. So today is your day to let go and relax on your ride of life.